Ego and decisions

2 12 2008

Part of being a strong entrepreneur is having a healthy Ego but the Ego gets in the way of many decisions (often the bad ones). In this case, it will certainly have an impact on the decision to “hang on”. Recognizing this and treading the fine line between pride and ego will dictate what the best decision is and put the entrepreneur in a better state of mind for the second round.

From the book BusinessThink

Here is a way of analyzing if your Ego is in the way

Warning signs:

Showcasing your brilliance
Seeking approval: Do you give the unvarnished truth?
Being defensive: Do you present your solutions as Hypothesis or facts ?

An Ego will:
1- Magnify information to get more meaning
2- Filter: discard information contrary to your position
3-Alter: Adjust information to validate your position
4-Fabricate: Information that suits your need

the Ego Test

  • When someone is giving me constructive feedback I get defensive
  • I often interrupt people because their point is irrelevant or inferior. I get uptight around people who are more powerful
  • I’m afraid to share candid thoughts for fear others may not agree
  • I spend more time talking than listening
  • I perceive people surrounding me as bosses or employees more than colleagues
  • When someone challenges my idea, I take it personally
  • I am surprised when people don’t agree with me
  • I sollicit feedback with the intent of hearing them talk favorably about me
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23 12 2008
11 01 2009
Your type of Life Success « Katheline Jean-Pierre, Web Strategy, Social media & Internet marketing

[…] are in our current life.  At some point, we also have bigger or smaller egos.  See this article Ego and decisions from Startupcoaching. Possibly related posts: (automatically generated)Welcome to the Joy and […]

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